Life isn’t fair, and sure as hell isn’t easy. But we are not defined by the obstacles, but by the triumph, or failure. Failure is a lot harder, and when we fail, rarely do we do we acknowledge that we just weren’t good enough. Humility is rarely the response to failure; the response tends to be excuses. Not that the opponent was just better, but that we weren’t playing at our hardest, we were tired, we had a lot on our minds, or whatever we can think of.
But what if we accepted that we just weren’t good enough, and in the acknowledgement, we got back up, trained harder, studied more, or practiced intensely. We can only get better by first accepting our short comings and work to build ourselves up, no matter what the problem. Excuses only allow us to stay the same and never get better. If we never get better, we will never grow and we will never move on or up.
The harder the trials, the more we have to work, and once we beat one trial, life will throw another one at us. It never gets easier; it only gets harder. Yesterday was easy, today is hard, and tomorrow will be a beast. No matter how hard it gets, we can never give up, there are other people counting on us. Whether they be a spouse, kids, friends or co-workers, we are not islands and everything we do ripples to someone.
The good news is that we are not alone, we have friends and family, who may not always be able to help us, but will be willing to try. And in dire situations, there are hotlines, volunteers, outreach associations, charities and first responders that can be called. No matter what life throws at you, never give up, and never be ashamed to ask for help, because you are loved.